kenapa sih orang tua.......
your children are not your childrenKahlil Gibran - The Prophet
they are the sons and daughters of live longing for itself
they come through you but not from you
and though they are with you
yet they belong not to you
you may give them your love
but not your thought
for they have their own thoughts
you may house their bodies
but not their souls
for their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow
which you cannot visit
not even in your dream
kenapa sih orang tua seringkali beranggapan bahwa mereka menganggap keputusan yang mereka ambil mengenai hajat hidup anak2 mereka itu baik/benar tanpa menanyakan pendapat atau keinginan anak mereka dulu. orang tua selalu berpikir kalau mereka tahu apa yang terbaik untuk anak2 mereka. padahal belum tentu apa yang mereka putuskan sesuai dengan keinginan sang anak.
okay, i'm repeating sentences. it means i pist off! (or at least while i write this).
gara2 ya itu tadi, si bapak memutuskan sesuatu tanpa nanya2 dulu ke saya padahal hal itu berkaitan banget sama saya. aarrghh.......kesel! i didn't come home to be treated like a child!
didn't it occur to him that i have other thought inside my head? other opinion that is probagly different grom what he thinks? this is one of the reasons why i don't want to live close to the families and relatives: so i can live exactly the way i want to be.
it happened. can't turn back the time. so what i must (and can) do now is gracefully accepting the situation and trying my best to deal with the situation *sigh*.